I wrote about my cousin not too long ago (People change, myself included). How embarrassing it is that I have to correct myself so soon. Some people never change, never ever.
I just can't believe it. The whole re-establishing a connection thing turns out to be part of my cousin's and her dear sister's plan to dump their mother.
My dear elder cousin called my father from Australia. After 10 minutes of nonsense he told my father that he and his sister had had enough of their mother and decided to relocate her to Hong Kong. He informed us that he had planned to let her stay with us for "a period of time". What the hell! You did not call for 20 years and suddenly you ask us to adopt your mom?! You may well consider your garden house in Sydney suburb too small for a family of four, or you don't have any money left after buying a house as a wedding gift for your son, but your mom is none of our business. YOUR mom is YOUR mom, not OURS. WE ARE NOT GOING TO ADOPT HER. END OF DISCUSSION. PERIOD.